eagerly waiting for......

yes, it's been month since i wrote something on you, Mr. Blog. It's not that i forgot about you, i'm just terribly busy with so many things that i have to ignore you for a while. Now that i'm here, let me tell you what's new in my world.

Well, so many things have happened to me in past few months. And recently, i'm eagerly waiting for my new baby, a new ride. Expected to deliver in 1-2 weeks period, i hope it will take me closer to my Creator, not the other way around.

And the good thing is that we've moved back to TRJ, leaving the lonesome Merbok and it's residents. I'm happy that we're living in such great caring community. Hope it's the best for us, especially my family. My nieces, they are among the greatest gift and blessing from Allah and may Allah guides us raising them up.

May He guides me to the right path.. ameen.

The Temporary Calmness

Alhamdulillah..
Things are getting better for me recently. Everything runs smoothly as planned, with only some little problems here and there. Well, that's normal to have problem, isn't it? Life is more colorful with problems and trouble.

I'm so glad with this situation right now, even though i know it's not going to last for long. Because in this real life, everything come and go. Nothing's gonna last forever. If you're sad, the sorrow doesn't last forever, and if you're happy, the joy won't last for long. That's the reality of life.

I realize that I better learn how to overcome those troubles instead of getting in them. With Allah's will, I believe everything is possible. He knows what's the best for me, and I hope for His bless to come over to me.

I've never thought of having what i have right now, even though nothing much, but I'm very thankful to The Almighty for everything. I might be not a rich, good looking, gorgeous and super smart person, but I've been given a heart and mind to justify what's good and bad for me. That's an invaluable gift for me.

I miss him

Lately I've been spending my times thinking about him. I'm missing him, so much. I still can feel his presence in our life, just like he's only out for work and will be back home in the evening. I can still hear his voice inside my ears. His smile lingers in my eyes.

But the matter of fact is, he's too far away from us by now. And there's nothing I can do to keep him back to us. I can only pray for his peace and Allah's blessings upon him.

He was always there when I needed help and raising me up when my world was going down. He's more than just a brother. He was a father, a friend, a leader.

I really miss his words, motivating me to go through every trouble with calm. We used to went through troubles together. Being with him made it easier when life gets hard. He knew how to make people smile. Anything he said, never something to irritate others. His dream was big, to make everyone that he knows happy.

Now I have to face this fate that he's gone, forever. All I can do is just keep on praying for him. May peace and Allah's blessings be with him.

WHEN...

When she seems to keep away from me
When her song doesn't sound as good anymore
When the melody of our song disappeared with the wind
When there's no more cheerful good morning wishes
When my nights seem to be lonesome and dull
When my phone tend to be quiet all day long
When my messages doesn't get any reply
When I try to put up with it and failed
When I feel that she needs me no more

That's when I know she's just a dream
A beautiful nightmare that I never wanna wake up from
But the nature of dream is, it comes and goes easily
When the sun smiles and the moon falls asleep
The dream left to be just a memory
Then the memory stand alone all on itself
And vanished when the days come and go

And I am just a dream
And a dream never last for long

DO I NEED TO BE IN LOVE?

Sometimes I am wondering too much about LOVE. For a guy at my age, most people would say that I should have a girlfriend-a very typical way of thinking. And some of them says that it's kind of abnormal not to have one. Some even accuses that I am a gay, just because I don't have a girlfriend. Whoa, that's too much i guess. The question is, do I really have to have one? Well, I have no answer for that..

I am currently getting somewhat close to a very best female friend, but I'm not sure if that's love. I have to admit that I feel nice and cozy chatting with her as she knows me really well. I tell her my problems and she tells hers to me too. I feel that she is who I belong to be with. But that's just my poor instinct's wishful thinking. I do feel happy, but is that love?

I don't want to get stranded alone in the jungle called love. What if she doesn't really like me? And the most important thing is, I have promised myself to try to avoid getting in love matter before I find someone who really loves me. I have a faith that my destiny is in God's hand. So, I would prefer just to let it comes naturally to me when the time is here.

But sometimes, I tend to get confused between my instinct and my principle. I want to stand on my principle, but at the same time have a feeling to love and be loved. May Allah leads me to the rightest path of life..

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Feel to write something, but somehow don't know what to write about. Just now, i logged into my friendster account and bumped into some of my old friends' profiles. Looking at their pictures after years not seeing each other, makes me think about the old times. The times we had together. Most of them look different than before, the time we were together in secondary school.

Now after years, I'm glad that they still recall my name and my look. Proving that I'm still the same me that I used to be. For some of them, I don't even recognize their look nor the name as they're using different name for their profiles.

Back to the school times, I was a person who loves to keep myself out from the crowd. Lack of self confidence, I only had a few friends who was really befriended with me. Still remember their names and, sure, their look. Azad, Yusri, Wicit, Noriah were amongst who I really befriended with. Maybe that time I thought I have a very bad look, that's why my self-esteem vanished easily and I didn't have much friends. But now that I'm a grown up guy, I tend to learn that the look doesn't really has anything to do with my confidence. As long as I feel comfortable, then I'll get my confidence.

One of the things I've learnt from school times, never compare myself to another person. I am what I am, differently from what they are. If they think I look weird, I would say no, I look unique instead.

Anyway, really happy+amazed with some of them who has make it with their life. Some of them even has their own car and properties. And me? hehe. Still the same........

SUCCESS

When i heard that one of my friend is setting up his very own company, I was like ,wow.. He's moving forward while I'm still here one year after finishing my study. Yeah, I'm quite impressed and amazed by his courage on running his own business. Hopefully he will make it in current global economical issues. Plus with limited knowledge and experience in administering the business.

That's his story. What about me? I've made it too, in my own way. From zero to hero. (hahaha) Because I see an achievement as something that i've gained by my own effort, never care about the value because for me an achievement is invaluable. And sometimes even failure can be seen as an achievement when it teaches me to come back for more and never give up easily.

I called my very best friend last night, chatting about so many things. She told me about her work, and I told her mine. We were laughing at each other for what happened to both of us. Complaining about our current life compared to other friends who has better life. Then we realized that life is not just about obtaining something that we wish for, its likely about going through what we sometimes hate, and be back for something better. Well, sometimes life is funny and thank God for everything i've achieved until today, and that i still have what i own today.

The road to success is not an easy and smooth path, there are so many sadness, failure and rejection to find along the way to get it. I came across a writing indicating that one must face failure in order to succeed, and there's no escape from that. That's why I said, even failure can be seen as an achievement. So, never evaluate your success only from the property you have or may have. Open your eyes and see deeper in your life that you must have something to be proud with.. and that's your real success.