Monday, June 29, 2009

SUCCESS


When i heard that one of my friend is setting up his very own company, I was like ,wow.. He's moving forward while I'm still here one year after finishing my study. Yeah, I'm quite impressed and amazed by his courage on running his own business. Hopefully he will make it in current global economical issues. Plus with limited knowledge and experience in administering the business.

That's his story. What about me? I've made it too, in my own way. From zero to hero. (hahaha) Because I see an achievement as something that i've gained by my own effort, never care about the value because for me an achievement is invaluable. And sometimes even failure can be seen as an achievement when it teaches me to come back for more and never give up easily.

I called my very best friend last night, chatting about so many things. She told me about her work, and I told her mine. We were laughing at each other for what happened to both of us. Complaining about our current life compared to other friends who has better life. Then we realized that life is not just about obtaining something that we wish for, its likely about going through what we sometimes hate, and be back for something better. Well, sometimes life is funny and thank God for everything i've achieved until today, and that i still have what i own today.

The road to success is not an easy and smooth path, there are so many sadness, failure and rejection to find along the way to get it. I came across a writing indicating that one must face failure in order to succeed, and there's no escape from that. That's why I said, even failure can be seen as an achievement. So, never evaluate your success only from the property you have or may have. Open your eyes and see deeper in your life that you must have something to be proud with.. and that's your real success.

Sunday, June 28, 2009

WHEN I FEEL down...

Have you ever feel like hiding away from the surrounding world? Feeling desolated by what had happened on you today, or yesterday, or the past times? Or maybe for some serious cases, feel useless and hopeless?

I know how it feels as i do feel it sometimes.. and believe me, it doesn't feel good.
When i feel down, I tend to be vulnerable and sensitive which results to a short term isolation. Most of the time, I like to go calming myself alone at the park and usually it works. After spending a few moments, I can feel the energy is back and there i am ready again.

Nevertheless, that method doesn't really work for some cases. For instant when I feel financially depressed, it takes me some advance methods of solving it. Being at the park for financial problem doesn't make it any better. There should be other way to solve the problem, not just sit back and let it be. My solution based on the cause.

And I am very grateful to Allah for every strength He gave me to find solution to my problems.